Tell me if this sounds familiar to you...

  • You want to be the leading role in your own story, but you feel like you're not in control
  • You want to be your most authentic self, but you don't know what that looks like (or how to find it)
  • You've searched for purpose in your life but still find yourself feeling lost and unfulfilled
  • You're ready to be vulnerable and take emotional risks, but you don't know where to start
  • You can't seem to achieve the goals and success you want to, and you don't know what or how to change
  • Your relationships aren't as happy and healthy as you want them to be, and you don't understand why
  • You feel like there's something missing from your life, even if everything appears great on paper

This guide will teach you how to:

  • Become more self-aware of who you are and how you act
  • Stop limiting beliefs and improve your self-confidence
  • Discover what gives you purpose and meaning
  • Correctly name your emotions and patterns blocking vulnerability
  • Develop your ability to recognize, own, and share your story
  • Find and build a sense of true belonging
  • Live a life by design rather than by default

What's included in this guide?

  • Questions that will help you discover yourself and unlock your purpose
  • Information and tips about human nature that are holding you back
  • Activities to help you connect with yourself and others
  • A cheatsheet after every chapter with the main summary and take-aways
  • The complete eBook (and workbook activities) in one easy download
  • An optional video and transcript for every lesson, so you can watch, listen, and/or read

This guide is for you if:

  • You want to step into the leading role of their own life
  • You're ready to take more personal control over your outcome
  • You love tackling the hard questions to learn more about yourself
  • You're ready to summon the courage to be vulnerable

Who am I and why should you care?

Hi, I'm Kara.

For years, I thought I understood myself. I journaled and questioned everything - yet I still found myself feeling frustrated and lost.

From the outside, my life was great. I had a job, an apartment, and friends. Yet I still found myself searching for something more - haunted by the questions and uncertainty of life.

OverallI was asking myself the wrong questions.

Since I became more self-aware, my life changed. And not because I became a different person or made drastic decisions. Instead, because of how I looked at myself and my life. Because I became more fully myself.

This guide dedicates itself to helping you ask the right questions to redefine your life. You’ll learn the three most pivotal habits you need to be self-aware. You'll see the difference between what society (and your shame) tells you, and what you actually want.

You’ll discover the answers you’ve been looking for.


"I love the approach Kara takes with this guide. She got my attention right away. It's interactive, witty and packed with knowledge." 

"The activities in this book make this course stand out from other courses."

"I had no idea how not self-aware I was until I took this course. Now, I can't imagine going back. It's literally changed how I look at my life."

Want to learn more about Kara? Check out her blog,, which empowers you to ask better questions and lead a more vulnerable, self-aware, and purposeful life.

Discover Yourself.

If you feel like you're missing out on your mot authentic, vulnerable life, this guide will help you find it.


Ebook: Discover Yourself

Everything you need to discover yourself, redefine your purpose, and live your most authentic life.


Will I really achieve all the benefits of self-discovery if I download this guide?

I can’t promise that you’ll immediately receive a promotion or fall in love after taking this course. However, I can guarantee that you will definitely help you find out more about who you are and how to own your story. This understanding alone will absolutely give you the benefits I’ve listed. 

What happens if the guide doesn’t work for me?

I truly believe this guide can help anyone, from a CEO to a frustrated parent to a lost twenty-something to a struggling student. However, you might not gel with my style or voice. Totally fine! If the guide doesn’t work for you, I’ll give you a full refund if you reach out to me within 30 days. So really, there’s no risk in signing up.

How long do I have access to the guide?

Forever! Seriously, you have lifetime access. So if you don’t get to it right away, or want to circle back later, you’ll always be able to go back to the guide.

Wait, there are videos? What if I just want to read?

I've got you covered! You can download the ebook and work completely with the download, if you prefer!

Is it true that you’ll email me personally if I download this guide?

Yes, you heard right, my friend! I will send you a personal email when you sign up, and I would love to hear about your experience throughout the guide. Unfortunately, I won’t have time to correspond with you after every lesson (remember that whole full-time teacher/blogger thing? More coffee, please!). 

Does this guide count as therapy?

No! This guide is not therapy, and I am NOT a certified therapist. While self-awareness is so critical and helpful for our mental health, sometimes being self-aware is not enough to deal with the problems we’re facing. If you need therapy or find yourself grappling with some really tough issues, I highly encourage you to seek a certified therapist. That being said, this course might give you a leg-up for your therapy journey.

Anything else you want to know before signing up?

Send me an email, and I’ll answer the best I can!